One of my favorite quotes is from corporate consultant Jack Rosenblum who said: If one person tells you you're a horse, they’re crazy. If three people tell you you're a horse, there's a conspiracy afoot. If ten people tell you you're a horse, it's time to buy a saddle.

LOL. But what Jack’s really talking about here is feedback—the kind we don’t want to hear and, too often, the kind that many of us ignore. 

Well, what feedback are you getting about your family that you might be ignoring? One of the toughest things my coaching clients have to work through is a family situation that’s stressful, heartbreaking or simply needs attention. 

So today, what’s one small step—a 1% improvement—you can make to improve your marriage, family relationships, boundaries, house rules, or living situation? 

Could you . . .

• Schedule a date night this Saturday with your spouse?
• Have that “difficult conversation” with your aging parent?
• Cook dinner as a family at least three nights this week?
• Establish a calm morning routine for younger children?
• Set boundaries with your argumentative brother?
Your family is your inner circle—the people you should turn to in tough times, but also the people who turn to YOU for the same reason. 

If you need to show up differently and make some serious changes (in your family situation or any other category), I have good news: I’ve teamed up with Oola authors Dr. Dave Braun and Dr. Troy Amdahl to bring you a 10-week focused approach to creating a life that’s balanced, happy, and growing. 

Don't just dream about the ideal life you want. Start living it with Oola Coaching. Click now (or email me)!


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